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진공상태5님의 대화: 혹시 로버트드니로 가 출연한 인턴이라는 영화보셨어요? 저는 그 영화에서 공감한게, 로버트드니로가 일을 하고 싶어하는 마음이었거든요. 저는 일이 필요한 사람이고.. 행복감자님도 아마도 그러신듯요? 지금 말씀하신거 영화 인턴에서 로버트드니로가 대부분 다 해요. (서점은 안했구나 ㅋㅋ) 그런데, 그러고 나서도 채워지지 않는 무언가 때문에 다시 일을 시작하는데.. 그 영화가 생각이 납니다.

오도니안님의 대화: 옛날엔 전쟁이 없으면 삶의 의미를 못찾는 전사 부족들도 있었으니까요. 문화에 따라 삶의 의미를 찾는 방식이 달라지니까 후손들은 나름대로 여가 많은 삶에 적응을 할 것 같습니다. 우리 같은 과도기 사람들이 문제죠. 저는 이미 퇴직을 했으니 직접적인 영향은 받지 않겠지만요. 저같은 경우는 직업이 없어도 잘 사는 한량 체질이라. ^^

롱기누스님의 대화: 오래전에 봐서 기억이 잘 가물가물 하네요... 이번 주말에 봐야겠습니다. ^^

진공상태5님의 대화: Freud said, "Love and work. Work and love. "That's all there is." Well, I'm retired, and my wife is dead. As you can imagine, that's given me some time on my hands. My wife's been gone for three and a half years. I miss her in every way. And retirement? That is an ongoing, relentless effort in creativity. At first, I admit I enjoyed the novelty of it. Sort of felt like I was playing hooky. I used all the miles I'd saved and traveled the globe. The problem was, no matter where I went, as soon as I got home, the nowhere-to-be thing hit me like a ton of bricks. I realized the key to this whole deal was to keep moving. Get up, get out of the house, and go somewhere. Anywhere. Come rain or shine, I'm at my Starbucks by 7:15. Excuse me, mind if we join you here? Hey, how are ya? Can't explain it, but it makes me feel part of something. These guys today, they're not numbers guys. Don't talk figures with them. How do I spend the rest of my days? You name it. Golf, books, movies, pinochle Tried yoga, learned to cook, bought some plants, took classes in Mandarin. Translation, "Believe me, I've tried everything." And then, of course, there are the funerals. So many more than I could imagine. The only traveling I do these days is out to San Diego to visit my son and his family. They're great. I love 'em to pieces. But to be honest, I think I probably relied on them way more than I should. Don't get me wrong, I'm not an unhappy person. Quite the contrary. I just know there's a hole in my life, and I need to fill it. Soon.

진공상태5님의 대화: Freud said, "Love and work. Work and love. "That's all there is." Well, I'm retired, and my wife is dead. As you can imagine, that's given me some time on my hands. My wife's been gone for three and a half years. I miss her in every way. And retirement? That is an ongoing, relentless effort in creativity. At first, I admit I enjoyed the novelty of it. Sort of felt like I was playing hooky. I used all the miles I'd saved and traveled the globe. The problem was, no matter where I went, as soon as I got home, the nowhere-to-be thing hit me like a ton of bricks. I realized the key to this whole deal was to keep moving. Get up, get out of the house, and go somewhere. Anywhere. Come rain or shine, I'm at my Starbucks by 7:15. Excuse me, mind if we join you here? Hey, how are ya? Can't explain it, but it makes me feel part of something. These guys today, they're not numbers guys. Don't talk figures with them. How do I spend the rest of my days? You name it. Golf, books, movies, pinochle Tried yoga, learned to cook, bought some plants, took classes in Mandarin. Translation, "Believe me, I've tried everything." And then, of course, there are the funerals. So many more than I could imagine. The only traveling I do these days is out to San Diego to visit my son and his family. They're great. I love 'em to pieces. But to be honest, I think I probably relied on them way more than I should. Don't get me wrong, I'm not an unhappy person. Quite the contrary. I just know there's a hole in my life, and I need to fill it. Soon.